Times Picayune

A Father and Child Reunion

Barri Bronston (Staff Writer)
Monday, December 8, 2003
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Dennis Berner's family band stopped serenading the city's preschoolers when two of his children headed off to college. But now they're back, and so are the toddling tunes of Dennis and Company.

When New Orleans accountant Dennis Berner ponders the most meaningful gifts ever bestowed on him, he is not very likely to list neckties, cuff links or power tools. For that matter, he is not likely to include anything of a material nature.

Easily topping the list is the devotion of his family, particularly his two eldest children Emily and Kyle. Who have spent the last year helping their father rejuvenate the musical side of his life.

Best known as the lead singer of the group Dennis and Company, Berner, 52, put all things musical-including his dream of a fourth album- on hold several years ago to help put his children through college.

But when they graduated -- Kyle, 23, from Loyola University and Emily, 24, from the University of Southern Mississippi -- they didn't have to think too hard about how they wanted to use their education.

Determined to repay their father, they decided to take what they learned and form a bona fide music business, complete with marketing and sales campaigns, press kits, counter-top displays and an Internet site. As part of the business, they would help their dad produce his fourth album and schedule as many performances as possible to show off his talents to a new generation of tots.

"We have decided to put our whole hearts into making this work," said Kyle, who still performs with his father along with Emily and 12-year-old sister Julia. "We know we have what it takes, and we really want our dad to be able to do what he really loves to do -- play music for kids."

The culmination of their efforts is "Dancin' & Dreamin' with Dennis," a compilation of 18 songs that can either lull children to sleep or get them up and moving, depending on their mood and the time of day. The songs, most of which were written by Berner, include upbeat tunes titled "Shake A Leg" and " New Orleans and Me" and more soothing songs such as "Kissing Good Night" and "I Am Beside You."

Dressed in their signature denim overalls and joined by a furry character they've dubbed Bernie the Bear, the Berners introduced the album last month at the Louisiana Children's Museum and have been on the circuit of festivals and holiday events ever since.

Berner says he is happiest when he is with his family -- second happiest when he is entertaining children -- so the fact that he has been able to combine the two has been the fulfillment of a dream.

"We just can't believe this is happening," said a jovial Berner at his Lake Terrace home, which he shares with all three children and his wife Connie, a preschool teacher at the Academy of the Sacred Heart. "It's knowing that we are spending time together, sharing in something that we can do to bring joy to children and young families."

As far back as he can remember, Dennis has had a passion for music. He has played guitar since he was 12 and performed in several bands, including Ivy, which in the 1970s was one of the most popular bands on the local music scene. "That's how I saved money to get married," he said, laughing.

Once married, he began concentrating on paying the bills, which meant putting music aside and focusing on his career as a certified public accountant. He missed performing but never lost hope that he might one day launch at least a part-time musical career.

Never did he imagine that that career would take the form of children's entertainment and that his audience would consist largely of the tricycle set. But when he happened upon the internationally celebrated children's singer Raffi in the mid-1980s, it hit him that New Orleans could use a "Raffi" of its own.

"That was really the beginning," Dennis said. "So I wrote a few songs, put them on tape and let my wife play them for her students at Sacred Heart. The kids really liked it, and I thought, 'Maybe we're on to something.' "

In time, that "something" turned into a full-fledged musical act, with Emily, then 8, and Kyle, then 7, providing background vocals and even assisting with song writing. Using her background in early childhood education, Connie made sure the music was not only age-appropriate, but fun and amusing.

"Normally, I would come up with the melodies and as a family we'd come up with the lyrics," Dennis said. "I remember when we wrote the song 'Bear Hunt.' We were all in the car and we just started making up lyrics about trying to find a bear in the woods."

That song, along with "Happy Day" and " Silly Willie School ," are among the tunes on Dennis' first album, "Music For Children By Dennis." He went on to produce two more albums, "Dennis Sings Again" (which won a Parenting Choice Award) and "Christmas With Dennis" before taking a break to see Emily and then Kyle off to college.

Emily majored in public relations and minored in voice, while Kyle majored in marketing. As part of a project, Kyle had to develop a business marketing plan, which he based on what he knew -- children's music.

"When you're little, you don't think of music as a business," said Kyle, who with Emily also spent summers working at Disney World. "Once I was in college, I thought, 'This really has some possibilities. Let's give it a shot.' So I came up with lots of different strategies and added a character to the live show."

"It's almost as if all of their experience and education was preparing them for what they're doing now," Dennis said. "They can now use some of what they've learned about business to help Connie and I reach many more children with our music. This has added a whole new dimension to our experience, and they're having a blast doing it."

Emily handles public relations and sales and has the newest CD in 25 stores. Kyle is in charge of marketing, which includes Web site management, media planning, advertising and promotion and live performance bookings.

Dennis oversees accounting and finances, while Connie works the sound system. The Berner's youngest daughter Julia -- who was just a year old when the third album was produced -- also sings with the band, as does her cousin Katharine Harris.

"We want our music to be educational, but it can't be all educational because that would be boring," Dennis said. "We also want it to be singable and somewhat silly. Connie is my coach. I wouldn't make any decisions on songs without her approval."

Dennis says he has also learned from experience the importance of performing songs that encourage children to get up and dance. "You want kids to be involved, otherwise you'll lose them," he said. "They'll simply go to whatever else is available that makes them happy.

"I always consider it a challenge to keep them glued for the duration of our performance. I think we've got it figured out now, but I still can't make any promises."

 



A Special Thanks from Dennis